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5 POWERFUL WAYS TO GENUINELY ATTRACT YOUR PERFECT MAN!
JULY 17, 2017
In an age obsessed with the romantic ideal, most single people are searching for love and, not uncommonly, in all the wrong places. I know many women who devote invaluable years of their prime to men that are largely unsuited to them. And whether they go down the path of serial dating or long-term relationships, they often hit a dead-end road.

Alternatively, there are always those who put up with a man who “will do”. And even though the relationship isn’t inspiring or heart-connected, it’s “good enough”, it’s “okay”! But is a “will do” relationship really okay?

Despite all past failures, more and more people are looking for their true match, they crave and pursue compatible love. And yet, for some, no matter what they do, it seems so difficult to find or they still choose the incompatible!

In truth, an authentic love isn’t so hard to find. Difficulty only arises when you are unaware of or do not consistently honour your purest and most genuine desires and needs – a direct consequence of not knowing who you are and what you value.

Sadly, lacking self-knowledge often goes hand in hand with lacking self-love. And these two gaps in the self can severely injure your chances to attract your perfect man.

Still, do not get discouraged. I have a few tips in a store that will shorten your journey to discovering blissful companionship.

Here is how to shave years off your dating life and find true love.

ChampionYou!
Do you back yourself? Do you fight for you? Do you self-champion? I can’t emphasize enough how important this is. If I could compare true love to a culinary chef-d’œuvre, self-love is the prep phase. Most people doubt they are lovable in some way or in many, and, naturally, that belief manifests dysfunctional relationships or no relationships at all.Most people are not truly sure of what self-love is – which sees them living in constant state of dissatisfaction with themselves. The good news is, this is just a habit…of habitual beliefs that are working against you… and as any other can be kicked with some effort over time. Here are a few suggestions how to learn to appreciate yourself more.
– Quit self-criticism. We all want to be loved for who we are, and yet we fail greatly at accepting ourselves. Why expect another human being to appreciate us fully, while we crucify ourselves 24/7? Isn’t that the definition of a double standard? Once you gently and consistently silence that demanding critic in your head, inner peace follows and bliss ensues.

– Pay yourself compliments. Nothing hits the pause button on self-critique like praise, so be lavished with it. Congratulate yourself on your little mundane triumphs, like sorting that heap of laundry. Or finding that parking spot downtown. Life isn’t easy and you do so well at it! You deserve regular rounds of applause for simply going through each day.

– Follow your bliss. Discover what makes you feel fantastic, and stick with it. Moving your body exhilarates you? Then drop all feeble excuses and take up exercising with religious meticulousness. This will raise your feel-good vibrations and pave the road for more of what you want and value in your life. Maybe one of them will be that sexy kind stranger you are secretly hoping for.

Shed All Limiting Beliefs About Men
Sometimes the main obstacle to meeting Prince Charming is that we don’t actually believe he exists. Instead, our heads are full of negative imprints about the opposite sex. Some may stem from past experiences, but the bulk of those are simply social conditionings that we “pick up” unconsciously. Here is one such example…

“The best men are taken, liars or cheaters.” We have heard these kinds of statements about men so often, that it has become like a mantra, perhaps a self-fulfilling prophecy.And yet there is only a speck of truth in it, simply because, not all men are like this, and don’t forget – women cheat and lie, too, and not all the best women are taken either! Right!

No matter what your sex is – all humans at times can be dishonest, confused and emotionally challenged, it’s part of being human in this world. It’s how you navigate your relationships and yourself that will make the difference here. Focus on the traits you value in a partner and look for them in the men you date. So, you can choose to believe in the an-bashing hoopla, or you can focus on the type of man you want – it’s up to you. What you focus on expands, therefore pick your thoughts wisely.

If I was single and looking for love I know what I’d be devoting my attention to. I would be thinking about all the wonderful men out there looking for healthy love. And you know what, there doesn’t have to be a whole army of them. You only need ONE such specimen to cross your path.